My friend met this guy in Benin, they started a thing, he treats her special, visited her at work, and all that and when she asked for commitment he said he’s not ready. She was ready to just forget about him until she went through his phone and found out that he was sleeping with other girls without condom and both of them did talk about being exclusive because they were having sex raw. She saw messages where a girl vowed not to be with anybody named Victor because of what he did to her, another where one was begging him to stopped being nonchalant towards her and another of one asking him for commitment and sometimes he screenshot and sent to his friends. She sent him a long paragraph of how she loved him and will continue with him without commitment and when she went to his house she stoled some of his school documents and receipts and burned them then use her urine to cook for him.