If you (yes you) are dating a man that is married, please stop it, it’s a dead end.
Now if you decide not to stop, don’t ever fall in love cause that’s what a fool would do and I’m sure you are no fools. Enjoy yourself but be mindful of your time and how much of it you waste. Remember, the basis of your relationship is sex. It will be disguised as something else like a love you’ve never had, a safe space, a place you can really be you, the best thing you never had but don’t be fooled by the false senses, it’s just sex. If you’re in it with the hopes that he’ll leave his family for you, you’re a devil. And he will do the same to you if at all he ever manages to leave the marriage in the first place. This advice is not for you. Next time his wife calls and you’re within earshot, take a moment and self reflect on your value as a woman and visualise all the things you want for yourselves. Everything you want for yourselves. If there’s a married man in that visual, this isn’t for you either. Regards.