We’ve been in this 4-year long-distance relationship, and I still haven’t even met him in real life. And now all of a sudden, he shows up in Nigeria without warning, claiming he wanted to surprise me – only to immediately get arrested by the EFCC on charges of obtaining money by false pretense. I don’t know what to make of this, he’s always claimed he don’t have money, so where’s this coming from?. I didn’t expect things to turn out this way. I’m sad, confused and disappointed.