For context my friend is a lastborn while I’m a second born, both female. Our gists and vibes are awesome and we’re good, but lowkey I’m tired of chasing and begging her to talk when something is wrong or she’s not getting what she wants. She will not communicate and will be carrying face till I pet her to talk. Something that’s not my fault o but she’ll be making me feel bad for not petting her. When I’m angry, I have to apologise for getting mad at her. I think it’s a lastborn thing but she’s in her mid thirties.