I didn’t grow up in a loving home. My parents were always fighting right from when I was small till today. I’m married now and romance is just not in me. I also prefer my man initiating and me responding apart from sex. Unfortunately he is even more unromantic than me. I’ve made rules like kissing and hugging before and after leaving home in order to make us both used to it but he isn’t serious. These days I just tell him “welcome” when he comes home. End of discussion. Maybe romance isn’t for me.