My elder brother called me and our mom to his house, and he knelt down. I’ve never seen my brother cry before. He begged us, and his wife, that we are tearing him apart because of our fighting. We all started to cry. I feel so bad, because now I know why his wife is handling all his finances. My brother is a reckless spender; she showed us bank statements of how my brother spent money anyhow, and that’s why she took charge of his finances. We thought she was controlling him. My mom was shocked – his wife is even the reason he has investments: hotels and lounges, it’s all because of her. And all these years, we have been fighting her for nothing. I don’t even know how I can stop all this guilt I am feeling for fighting her on different occasions.