Got into an official relationship with my side dude whilst still with my main dude sometime in November of last year. I was managing it well because I was neither emotionally attached to either of them. I enjoyed being the main, spoilt girlfriend to both lovely men. My birthday came and passed & my side dude went above & beyond for me (he’s way richer) but I simply got wishes from my main because he wasn’t buoyant at the time. Fast forward to present day and it pains me say that my sweet days with my side has come to an end and I’m just realizing that I may have actually fallen hard for him. Karma is a bhitch. I miss my side D. So bad.