A friend secretly told me my boyfriend was cheating on me, she asked me to confront him about it and I told her to bring me proof of it (mean you I did not believe her because she doesn’t like the guy being with me). I asked the first time and he denied it and the second time was via video call and he admitted that he did cheat on me and blames it on my behavior that I pushed him to. This was a girl he told me he had nothing to do with. I told him to break up with her instantly and he says he will do it when he wants to and I should not tell him what to do.