I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost seven years now. We met in school but after school, I got a job close to his house so we were staying together. His mum found out and I had to get a place of my own. Was already planning to though. So I got a place and he got another apartment too, but a bigger place, a three bedroom flat and his younger brother was staying with him, and then his friends from school. If I go to his place, there’s no privacy and if we go out, they will follow us. They don’t even like it when I am around, which is very obvious because they wouldn’t be able to do as they like. It is my boyfriend that is feeding them, buying data and other things in the house which I feel it’s getting too much. They don’t do anything in the house (I mean his friends and brother). What they want is eat, watch movie and go out. It’s my boyfriend that will do everything and spend on them too. I have tried to tell my boyfriend that this is getting too much but he said it’s for short period of time and he’s just helping them. They have been staying with him close to 2 years now. I don’t know what to do again, I am tired of complaining and It’s already affecting him financially and he’s someone that’s not stingy and doesn’t know how to say no. I am planning to break up with him but I am scared if that’s the right thing to do.