I recently found out my mom (my dad won’t let her work) doesn’t tell my dad each time I send money home, she says he’d not give her money again if he knows. I spoke to her about this when my dad hinted I’m not doing enough for them despite my efforts to cover all essentials for their household and my other siblings. She just hides it from everybody! I’m starting to resent my mom for her dishonesty and making me look incompetent.