I don’t enjoy sex, I realized I only reach orgasm when I’m masturbating. One time, my boyfriend caught me in the act and we talked about it. He tried his best to make me enjoy it, but still nothing. After having sex with my boyfriend, I often resort to pleasuring myself on my own because I did not really get any enjoyment out of the process. It seems like no matter what we try, I am unable to be fully engaged and get turned on by him.