I hate having sex and my husband seems to love it. I don’t know if he feels insecure because we have an age gap but he has it in his head that we must have sex at least three times in one week. I am just tired. Our marriage is perfect without the excess sex. No it’s not about attraction. I just don’t like sex. After sex, then he wants to cuddle and more than half the time, he wants round 2. We didn’t have sex before marriage. If I knew, I would have refused him