Can in-laws know their boundaries???

Before my husband married me his two brothers didn’t like me, and they knew how supportive I was to their brother before he married me. I got pregnant with my first child before the marriage and they said to him that the baby is not his, when I gave birth to my child, my baby looked exactly like my husband. Now my in-laws will come visiting and will always pick a fault of either not feeding them earlier or something else. But I will always overlook. My mother in law will not call me if I don’t call her. So my mother in law came to visit us. She has stayed for like 8months now in my house, they want her to continue staying with us because we just moved to a 4bedroom my husband bought. I told my husband that why not rent a conducive apartment for your mum if you people don’t want her to go back to her previous house. That staying with us here will only bring issues between us but my husband keep saying that I don’t want his mum to stay. Why am I concerned about when she will leave. Now she complains to him that I have a bad attitude that I don’t relate with her, she will call her other son’s wife and be checking up on them but she doesn’t do that to me. Complains that I don’t give her food on time. And mind you she doesn’t assist in any chores at home not even to pick up the kids from school that is not far from home. I do everything alone, my husband doesn’t even assist in bathing the boys or anything. Simply because he provides for the family, he will say what I’m I bringing to the table. Now he’s angry that his mum is complaining about my attitude. We were happy when is just me, my husband and the kids. But ever since she came is one complaint or the other. 🥺

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