I’ll never forget how my rich but stingy ex broke shamed me and mocked my N70k bank job 6 years ago. He smirked when I asked him to help me review my CV, and rendered no help or suggestion about how to strategize my job hunting for a guy who knew corporate top dogs in Lagos. When I asked for support to do a professional course, he blatantly said no. 6 years later, the decision to grant his or another company a multibillion naira contract randomly falls on my lap. My MD trusts my judgement and will approve whoever I choose based on my review. I’m not a bigger person.