I have a problem when it comes to consoling people or petting them when they need it. Majorly because I don’t self pity or like to be pitied. When I down I talk myself out of it and when I loose a family member or friend I don’t like the whole pity thing. But now I can’t be there for my friends or loved ones when they need it. Most times, I can’t even find the words to say so I’m silent because I know if I talk rubbish would come out. What do y’all say mehn.

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For those saying I lack empathy y’all are too fast to judge chilll. I never said I’m not present for them I just said iono what to say. I show up by giving them company, buying things I can like food, or just being a listening ear. Y’all should relax 😂