My mom is acting like a kid. She’s in her early fifties and I’m her eldest child, but i was born out of wedlock 24yrs ago. Soon after she met her current husband and they have 5children together. Now my stepdad and my mom’s relationship has been broken, to a point that she moved out of his house to stay on her own, a place i rented for her. Out of her 5 siblings with this man only 2 stay with her. The rest are with relatives but everytime my sister is complaining, she says my mom doesn’t stay at home, money i send them for upkeep she’ll use it to buy things for herself (makeup, cloths, changing phones, shoes and the rest ) sometimes if she goes out she’ll stop picking her calls or a man will answer the phone. Go out and not come back for days. My sister has been disturbing me that she no longer wants to stay with her that i should come for her but I’m not financially stable to take care of myself and a 20years old girl. I know living in the village has risks and all but at this point in my life i am struggling with literally no help from anyone. I don’t know how to do this, I feel so pressured by my family. All my life I’ve been helping in the family at least food is not a problem for them, but my mom isn’t helping, she’s acting like a teenager and if I confront her she’ll lie! I’m frustrated, life problems and family problems my head wan burst!