I can say I think I’ve hacked it, as a lady try as much as possible to bring something to the table, trust me anything at all be it, can be listening ears, support, peace of mind, loyalty. I’ve been the type that got jilted by men but now I have my relationship for almost 3years and I think it’s because my man knows with or without him I’m just going to cry about the heartbreak nothing else would move me, if I later chop breakfast sha I’ll come and tell you guys, but for now bring something to the table ladies