Roommate wahala

Honestly, living with roommates are so exhausting…Especially when they are far older than you. Let me go straight to the point. I lost my mum last year and living alone at that time was difficult for me. So I decided to ask a colleague of mine to move in with me and she agreed then I noticed that whenever bills like NEPA bill, gas bill or maybe fixing of anything around the house comes , she’s always finding it difficult to contribute. I remember two grown women living in a room that all the lights were faulty for 4months. I work from Monday to Saturday, while she works from Monday to Friday and I will still end up fixing it. while she acts unbothered and reluctant about everything. Most times paying back is always an issue, when it’s time to pay she starts giving me attitude, complain about bank app or delays the payment. Now on 22 of December 2023 i revamped one of my most expensive hair and forgot to take it along for vacation. Then I came back to pick it up boom!! The hair was no where to be found, I called her and asked if she was with it. Then she said “yes” and gave me a flimsy excuse, she said “I was trying to describe the hair to someone and I had to show it to the person” At this point I was so pissed 🤦‍♀️because it sounds like a lie to me. I sent her a voice message expressing myself. I came back from my trip and noticed she was still beefing me. With the way things are going I’ve decided not to renew the rent with her.. which I told her around second week of January in order for her to plan herself before march. While her rent is yet to be due..I expect her to contribute to the bills in the house. I called her to send money so we could get gas, this babe literally said she doesn’t think she will be cooking anytime soon and that I should go ahead and fill what will sustain me. Which I did!!! People of God, I came back home yesterday and noticed she bought a gas and still had the guts to cook with my own gas!! I kept my cool just to be sure. Behold this morning she was making breakfast with my gas. I caution her about her petty behavior. I stopped her from using it. We had some heated arguments. She called me a bad person and reminded me of how I had issues with everyone around me .This very words made so sad. Now this is coming from someone I’ve been so nice too, someone I left my old apartment for, someone I use my influence to get her a new orthopedic mattress that was worth #170k for #30k. She moved into my new apartment without pay for anything rather than her rent. Well, I won’t stop being nice.. let God be the judge.

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