After a bad breakup with my man of 5 years and being ghosted by 2 talking stages. I met someone recently and I like him but I’m holding back because I promised myself that I wouldn’t settle for less with all I’ve been through, I also don’t wanna date someone that lives in the same area with me and he lacks a lot in the grand scheme of things but I’ve just been so lonely for so long and he makes me really happy but what if after we have sex he ghosts. I can’t handle another heartbreak, I’m a girl that has so much love and wants to be loved but I’m so confused and scared so I’m pushing him away but what if he actually means well and I’m pushing away a good guy