I hate my dad so much. When I think of him, he was merely a sperm donor who provided money. He contributed only money and left my mum to do everything, my mum on the other hand provided money and life lessons, she is everything to me. He would come back home and the whole atmosphere would change, all he gave my mum was STDs and STIs and verbally abuse her. He dated his side chick even after she got married for many years, he had other side chicks. Why did you now get married to my mum if all you would do is scarr her, he has made me so scared of marriage. I only have a relationship with him because it would make my mum sad if I don’t.