She might think the world is against her but sadly her husband is a walking red flag. I had a similar experience last year. I got introduced to my neighbor’s inlaw. I noticed how condescending he was, I felt maybe it was an age factor. Only to realize how he truly felt about me when he was becoming abusive and I walked him out of my house for my safety and he yelled “98% of the time I come to you is because Ada asked me to, the remaining 2% is when I choose to do so on my own” that was the end. Blocked and delete.