It’s over two years I have been dating this guy, he doesn’t have a home when I meet him, and he was always staying with me. He’s very hardworking and I won’t lie he supported and helped my career, study wise, he is a tech guy. Things are good 😊 not until he wanted to rent a house, he merged money with another man and they collected 4 bed 🛌. Fast forward he moved in, with his younger brother and all of a sudden his mom comes to spend 5 days or 1 week in his house which I don’t even have issues with. Sometimes the mom just appears from nowhere when I’m in the house without any notifications and I would be forced to leave, which is quite understandable. So recently, I was at his place and he told me that the other man who they merge money together to get the house’s friend is coming over and he is expecting his girlfriend, that I should open the door for her, which I did. Immediately the girl came in I showed her the room and she gave me her phone that her guy wanted to talk to me, then I said just tell him you in already. The next thing this guy said on the phone was I’m rude 😢, I don’t have manners. Do I think he doesn’t have access to the house Who do I think I’m 😔. Wow I was amazed I didn’t say anything, so I called my guy and told him that this is what happened and I’m not sure this is your home you living in a family house cause how can an outsider just talk to me like this in your own house. I was really pissed 😤, when he came back I had to let him know that this house is a family home, no privacy, no atom of respect for your guest, everyone badge in and out. Now he is angry at me, telling me do I know how much he has spent blah blah blah 😒. Please how do I make him see that this house is for everyone, so far he is sharing rent with someone anyone can come to the house 😔
in Confession