There is this friend of mine(he is old ), we aren’t dating because he doesn’t like relationships but he is so morally and financially supportive but we haven’t had sex before. Then he introduced me to his younger friend who I couldn’t help but fall in love with, both these guys are based in Europe. The problem now is that they are coming back to Nigeria this Christmas, and the older one wants me to have sex with him. How do I have sex with him and still wish to date his young friend (the older one is more financially supportive). Lose the one I love that I am not sure if he loves me the way I do because we haven’t meet or just have sex with the old one and keep enjoying the benefits