So i recently got in a couple with a girl that’s totally my spec physically but she turns out to be an overthinker and me I’ve been an overly jokey person, come make the whole situation be like word and opposite. I’m always trying to make a joke out of conversations and my girl go dey her corner dey think another thing. Totally different topic and I have to explain every joke I make just to avoid war. It feels like I’m getting tired already. I’m not ready to end things with her and she is not improving in anyway, no matter how much I explain