I’ve been dating this guy for 2 years now, he is really sweet, character is A1 but he never takes care of his kitchen and he is not dominant. He doesn’t clean the dishes, it’ll be there till they have maggots. He has 2 boys, I told him to tell them to always take care of the dishes if he can’t but he insists the roaches is not from the dishes and doesn’t want to tell them. His house is now roach infested, I used to be able to spend 2 weeks and whenever I’m around I do the chores but now I can’t spend 5 days there, it’s so irritating now. My skin is even crawling typing this