There’s a friend of mine who introduced me to a guy, he asked her out but she said she wasn’t interested but I dont believe cause she went to his house and spent some days there. She told me she didn’t want to be with him cause he was in a serious relationship but has a friend who might be interested in him (I was the friend). I told her before she can give him my contact he should send #100k first to know if he’s serious and he sent it. I got his contact and we started talking but he told me he had a girlfriend and she was stressing him, he lives in South Africa and the girl lives in Lagos. He told me he’s suspecting that she might be cheating on him and he’s looking for a way to break up with her but he really loves me and wants to date me. I accepted him and he came back to Nigeria, he booked my flight to come see him in his state, he lodged me in a hotel and left me there for days alone. I called him and he didn’t pick, I sent him a message threatening that I’ll leave and block him before he came to the hotel and begged me, we made love and settled. Then he told me his girlfriend was around, that’s why he couldn’t come to the hotel and then I went back to my state and he sent me some money. After some months, I came back to see him and this time he brought me to his house and told me he has broken up with his girlfriend we were official now. He even introduced me to his mum but she was always disturbing him and asking him about the ex girlfriend cause they are very close. I spent sometime with him and went back to my state, lo and behold this guy sent me a message that I gave him infection, I was so pissed and I went to do a test but it was negative. I snapped it and sent it to him, he started begging that he’s sorry and maybe his ex gave it to him, I forgave him. He lost his dad so he told me to come for the burial and I came and even sew the asoebi, when I came this guy was showing me a video from the CCTV in the house that his ex girlfriend came to carry her stuff and recorded us having sex from the CCTV, she’s with the sextape and I shouldn’t be angry. I was so pissed because what was she still coming to do in the house, he even told me the girl was coming for the burial because of his mom, that his mom invited her. I locked up and I went for the burial, when I got there this guy put me to sit alone and the girl was seated with his friends. His friends stood up to spray him and he was dancing and holding this girl, I just sprayed him and left. This is a guy I was helping financially when he was planning the burial cause things were so hard and expenses were much , he lost alot of money and I was there for him. When we got home he apologized and I just didn’t want to stress him cause he just lost his dad and I locked up cause I didn’t want to add to his problems. He promised to give me money for rent and he has been promising but he hasn’t fulfilled even one, he has gone back to South Africa and he’s always insecure about everything ,suspecting me up and down. This is a guy that was paying that ex girlfriend’s rent and all her expenses but e reach my turn things are hard. I love him very much and I dont know what to do anymore cause I blocked all my guys for him. I’m loyal and he’s the only guy in my life