I’m a guy not so financially buoyant but i could atleast afford whatever I can and still manage to put myself through school. I’m in my finals in the university whereas I support my family with upkeeps and give my little sister monthly allowance, who’s in the university now. All my life i could say I have never for once been lucky with love, it’s either I get cheated on or I get lied to. To top it off I was told by a lady that I was too good to be true, so I stayed out of the relationship scene to focus more on my goals. A couple of months ago, I met this girl we talked I felt we were compatible so as time went by I asked her to be my girlfriend. She agreed and I wouldn’t lie the first few weeks were amazing because she was all I desired but things took a turn during my exams period whereas I had to somehow try to balance my work with school exams, so I ended up having to put my work on pending till I get done with my exams. I’m this type of guy whatever I have and I see someone is in need and I’m able to spare why wouldn’t I. I wasn’t raised to be stingy so during my exams my mom fell ill and was admitted in the hospital so it was left to i and my elder brother to sort out my mom’s bills whereas I was also completing my building in Lagos which was also taking money from me so. I was drained as of that period so now here’s what happened, during this time my girl used to come around to my place in school lamenting on how she needed money for this and that, this was just a relationship of weeks or about a month. Don’t get me wrong she was good, she was perfect but was always impatient. Whenever I go to Lagos she ask for little things, you know #10k and all that. I have no problem giving as long as I have but during that exam period she often came around demanding for huge sums of money, saying money for wigs and all that. I always told her remember we’re in school, there’s limits to what i can give but when we get to Lagos i can give you all that but she was just so impatient. On this day, when I had spent the last money on my mom’s treatment, I mean i couldn’t even get petrol for my gen that night because I was drained so she called and one thing led to another she was giving me hints that she wanted to come spend the night at my place and i really just wanted to be alone. I was depressed by what was happening and the next thing that happened, we didn’t talk for about a week, no text, no calls. I thought to myself saying what if I had died, was that how she wouldn’t have bothered checking on me and everytime she always came to my place was to ask for money for this and money for that. I opened up to a close friend of mine who’s a girl and she told me no woman who loves her man would go days without checking up on him regardless of whatever and then it hit me so I ended things with her. Yes there’s no fact that I still don’t love this girl but I want to know, was I in the wrong for not communicating about what was happening or was I just that random guy to her.