Best believe, I just found out that my husband’s best friend, who is the godfather to our three boys(aged 10, 7, and 3), has been fucking my husband of 12 years. To say I’m traumatised is an understatement. I know it will take years of therapy to feel sane again. This man (godfather: I’ll calling him Mr Z) spends so much time around our home. He is a strong tongue-talking Christian (or so I thought) and a leader in his church. You need to see the way he prays for my children whenever he comes around. How in the world will I tell my children that this man whom they have grown to love has been bending their dad over. My heart is bleeding, I trusted him with my children. My boys. Oh my God. My heart is broken. Funny thing, Mr Z got married to one very beautiful lady last year August. I’m both worried about my boys and about her. I love my husband so much, and I thought I knew him.