My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. When we started dating, I never lacked anything. Since September things have been tough for him, he got robbed at gunpoint loosing his car and phones. Since the incident I’ve not asked him for anything but since this October, he makes me borrow money from people and it’s wahala before he pays. His phone are always switched off for days. He calls me only when he wants to talk to me. I don’t pressure him, he knows but this his weird behavior is putting me off.