I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and she started smoking again a month ago even though she knows I hate it. She didn’t tell me at first and was hiding it from me before I found out, I could smell it off her breath though she tried to disguise it with mouthwash. I am worried about her health and how this would impact our relationship on the long run. Would this be the kind of mother I’d want for my kids. I find smoking quite repulsive and it has got to the point that I can’t bear to kiss her when she has had a cigarette or weed. I feel really disappointed that she has started again and I think she is being really selfish. Am I being reasonable and is there anything I can do or should I just accept it