Lola just finished nursing school and I have been saving for her scholarship program abroad amongst other things to help with hospital bills when she does an operation for the fibroids she has. We’ve been married for 7 years without kids. Last week she looked me in the eye and said if she goes abroad, she will get involved with another man who will make her a mother because she believes that I am impotent. I have never felt so helpless in my life. I know I can father a child but she could not due to her health but because of love, I stayed and never looked outside. It just hurts me that even with her apology, I will reconsider sending her abroad.