I think my husband is having a secret affair. He’s been having several disappearing messages on his mobile with several girls he didn’t want me to see, when I asked him for his password to his mobile phone he lied to me and gave me something else. He looked into my eyes and lied to me twice same day. We have been married for 10years and I have never doubted nor suspected him of cheating. I have never felt this way before. The feeling is so strong which makes me feel 💔. Before now I boast of him a lot to my colleagues that I can 100% vouch that my husband has never ever cheated on me since we got married. But recently, I totally lost that trust for him and this whole thing has been eating me up, affecting me emotionally and mentally.

Mrs

My husband and I are crazy couple. We discussed on trying out threesome with a 3rd party and I decided I will surprise him with a very sexy and hot girl because I know his spec. I went to the extent of opening a threesome account which I paid £25 for not knowing it was a scam site. So I told my husband I had given up and asked him to go ahead to find someone. On our date night, he told me about a girl and showed me her picture. I kinda showed interest in my mind because I know she is his spec. but I wanted to know more about this girl. I asked my husband where he knew her from. He told me he knew her over 10years ago before we got married. So I asked him who was she to him, he said just a friend . So I decided to push further and asked him if he has slept with her. He said no! But I noticed he was lying because it was written all over him. I told him he was lying to me before he finally told me he had slept with her just once before we got married and he used condom. I was still not convinced and went further in interrogating him and he confessed he slept with her 3times and this time without using condom. He also said whenever he is having sex with the girl he feels he is having sex with me because we’ve got similar shape just that her bum and breast is bigger than mine💔 and he also described how he holds her bum while fucking her and held mine like that while fucking me🥹. I was amazed and totally speechless! A single girl you slept with years back according to you, now you want us to have a threesome with same girl😫. How disrespectful 😡. I felt so disrespected by my husband and realised he doesn’t value me nor our marriage. If I had agreed to the threesome with this girl, it would’ve been disastrous because all his focus would’ve been on the girl not me😓. So this got me more worried. Right now I’m even more concerned because he is still communicating with this girl even though he told me it’s just normal talk but I’m not convinced because if he’s got the opportunity he will fuck her again and again. My question now is, has he cheated since we got married? Is he cheating on me? His answer is no! But I doubt because I feel he is lying to me still 💔. I’m shattered 😭😭😭