This guy has been on my case for almost a year, telling me he loves me. He’s literally one of the sweetest and coolest person I’ve met. So I finally accepted to be in a relationship with him. We are both same age or maybe I’m a year older, I’m not certain. Initially, I had a problem with dating my mate but he convinced me about age being just numbers (I thought he was genuine 😭). He came to Lagos to see me for the second time (like he claims always) and I went to his apartment to see him, we had sex and I went back home in the morning but this guy hasn’t called to check on me or even replied my message. I don’t understand, was his aim just sex. I’m not in love with him but I really like him and he knows. I’ve been feeling this lump in my chest since today for the first time in my life. I want to scream and cry but I’m just bottling it up as I can’t tell anyone about it. I’m 25years old, I’ve been single since 22 because I’m avoiding this. This hurts for real, I’m not supposed to be used by anyone at this age for God sake. What was I even thinking!