Omo! To be a Christian is not easy🤧. I’ll be 18 years soon, I don’t have sexual urges. Though once in a while I imagine having sex and having a good life with kids and all that with my future husband, who was my platonic boyfriend as of when I was in secondary school. I broke up with my platonic boyfriend but we pretty much love each other, I’m not interested in dating him no longer I just love his chat, vibe he gives, gist and all that. He is the only guy I’ve met that agreed never to have sex and all that and yup I’m still a virgin till now cause I don’t mince my words when I say I won’t have sex till am married. He understands but I found out too that he is doing yahoo, he didn’t want to go to school and all that, he is older than me with 5 years but we were classmates then In school. Ever since I heard he does yahoo, I’ve been disappointed in him, it was a shock to me cause I planned on accepting him back. I have this fear of yahoo guys, Omo dem and doing e much o. Me and the guy still talk on a friendly manner, I do like him but don’t want to be with him. He knows and we ain’t dating too, we just talk, laugh and gist. Then came last year this guy wey get better money, his family rich and all that asked me out and we both met on Facebook sef. I kinda loved him so I accepted the relationship, I told him plainly I’m not his standard oo cause he is rich and wealthy. Me and my family just dey manage, I only go for serious relationship cause I really want to marry early. I don’t want to be humping around or sleeping around. I found out he was cheating on me, I saw a chat enter his phone. I’m not the type to intrude on ones privacy but I couldn’t hide it, he told me it’s not true, sweared with a bible that he isn’t cheating. Few days later, the guy no dey give me attention, he no dey do anything and this guy senior me with 2-3 years. I actually fell in love with him but Omo he no be am. I called him one day, he said he was at home it seems he forgot he said a different location and he thought I was someone else. He said he was in a different place, Omo I felt heart broken. He called to apologize, I don tell am it’s over. The guy just begin dey talk to me anyhow, yell at me and me sef became sorry and was trying to apologize. The guy just talked to me anyhow and we broke up. Mind you when we were in the relationship, I told him I didn’t want to have sex cause I don’t fancy it and I believe sex is like a covenant. When you have it with someone it’s like an oath, not everyone one is to have sex with. I told him na but once I allowed him to touch my boobs and all that but it didn’t further, sadly I regretted and really asked God for forgiveness. I’ve been wanting to tell someone that 😪. I broke up with the guy, the guy was like who doesn’t have sex in a relationship and all that but truthfully I am not interested in dating any guy for sex. I am looking for something serious and my next relationship in order for the guy not to battle with the urge for sex, I guess I’ll tell him and tell him if he is super serious that we both are compatible for each other for life then less than 3 months we should be married because I’ve noticed its not easy to be loyal these days in a relationship without having sex. Before the time for cheating comes on both sides and loosing each other who is meant to be, why not marry if each other has pass the validity check. For those people that will say isn’t she too young, nope I’m not young cause it’s better to be married to the right guy and pregnant than being a single mother and an advice to guys who want to date virgin, before you date a virgin please make sure that it’s a serious relationship you want to have with her that less than 6 months you both are married to avoid, he cheated or she cheated on me.