My boyfriend is always harsh with his choice of words. Whenever he does it, he would always say that “I’m just joking” and anytime I tried communicating my feelings, he would say I’m always angry. Sometimes last week, I told him I want to put my business on hold because it’s slow and look for a salary job. He said I have a dull mentality for thinking like that, we had issues about it and it took a while for me to move on. We were joking this morning about something and his response was that “fire go burn me”. It wasn’t funny to me and he said I am an abusive and a manipulative partner because I got angry about it. I just tire