My ex used to beat me. My current boyfriend insults me with it. He says and I quote “can you try this rubbish with your ex? He would have beaten the shit out of you” lol the disagreement being that I was airing out how I feel each time he belittles me. Well, I met a very fine, celibate, Christian boy who has helped me reignite my spiritual life. I won’t allow these uncouth narcissistic men kill my idea of what love is. By the way, this new guy tells me I’m everything he prayed for in a woman, he wants us to court because he wants to settle down next year. Isn’t God wonderful