I just graduated from school, I have not even gone for service yet. Everyday my mother is talking about marriage. I don’t even have a boyfriend and she knows. She’s asking me how it’s possible, most of the guys I’m seeing are either yahoo guys or they are unserious. I’m not even up to 21 yet, I can’t breathe at home. She’s telling me to join a department in church, do this do that. Me I’m tired. It doesn’t help the fact that everyday I come online I’m seeing relationships and anniversaries and stuff. I just feel like crying like I’m not serious with my life. I’ve told her all I’m interested in right now is to get a good job and make money but she doesn’t want to understand.
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What you should remember is that, your life is yours to live. While your mother’s concerns are valid(I’m sure she thinks that), you have to let her know that God’s time is the best. Let her know that you’re not even against it but it’ll come when it comes. Use some reverse psychology on her. Ask her if she’d rather you marry early and wrongly or marry right, which can even happen early too. Seems you know what you want. Go for it. Parents will argue and squeeze their face and nose, but you’ll still be their child. Good luck.