I am a graduate, 25 years old, my boyfriend stopped talking to me close to 5 months now without any reason and only text me once in 2 weeks just to greet me. The problem now is that i think it’s very difficult to move on, not easy as you people do say it here. I am very beautiful, hardworking, attractive also from a very good home and guys that are more handsome and okay are all in my dm but i just can’t end my 4 years relationship like that. I must know why i deserve this treatment, i am always crying every night. I have really put down my ego as a lady, i keep begging him everyday but i am tired now. He was actually a sweet guy before while i am the dramatic queen in the relationship, i have never for once imagined he could act this cold towards me. I have never cheated or have the urge to even go out with someone else because he is enough for me. Recently, he has been commenting and liking a specific lady picture on Instagram that they both just followed eachother, something he hardly does before and he’s been posting hot pictures on his page. If he is actually done or not interested again he should atleast respect me by giving me a proper breakup message and then i will be so very sure that eveything is over, not abusing my emotions every day. 😭
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You know he doesn’t want you to move on.
I did the same to my ex, cos he was a serial cheater and I feel I should pay him back in a most deserving way for a cheater. So I found out about his escapades, I never for once confronted him or accused him, I just ghosted him. And of course I knew he loved me, he just couldn’t stay off women. So I ghosted him, made sure I blocked him on all social media, changed my line even and deleted all traces of him in my life, physically, both his friends and family. Yeah,I was that ruthless about the issue. I gradually forgot about him too. Not until recently he got my line again. He has other relationships but still wants closure on what happened. But I’ll never give it to him. 😌. I’m done with him.
So this is me giving you the antedote to the venom. Come to terms with the truth and understand that for him to ignore you, he doesn’t want you anymore. Don’t make excuses for what he did and know that the relationship is over and it’s over, no two ways. Even of he comes back, it bound to fall apart again. You should start researching on ‘how to get over and accept a break up’. Don’t be sulking darling. Cry if need be but move on. There are beautiful things around and within you you should appreciate now and you’ll be happier.
Besides he’s probably collecting love and all the goodies that comes with it ☺️and you’re still chasing after him. 😮💨