I’ve been scammed into this union, each time I think about it I wondered how i got here despite my smartness. All my life I have always wanted a love filled marriage in which we pour in so much into each other with good morals and attentive partner but I got the opposite. I got a partner that never wants to listen to what you say, a partner that’ll always make a point of that’s how I am after you complain about a red flag. I don’t know the last time I felt good in my own home anymore, my wife is a tacky person who doesn’t care about how her behaviors or actions make me feel. I just feel I have been scammed or my only purpose in all this shit I got myself into is being a provider. I know I will be out of here soon and be in a better space but this time I’ll be open minded and open my eyes wide, regardless of how it goes my son will always be my responsibility. Any guy out there with the mindset of settling, ensure you and your spouse live together for some months it’s very important. My union is barely a year and I’m tired already, more like I ended up with a different person from whom I dated. Make God help me 🙏