I moved to a new city 2years ago with just my luggage & no help from family. Took a bank loan and even sold my phone so I could rent a room that was below standard. Two years later I’ve gotten a better apartment and a job that settles my bills and then my elder bro moved to same city as mine and always disturbing me for money especially at the end of every month when he knows I get my paycheck. He doesn’t even want to get a job and he aims for a very expensive apartment. I take care of my younger ones and he wants to be part of that too. He keeps blaming my parent for not supporting him, forgetting they did their best and he is an adult now.