My wife and I have been married for 7years In February 18th this year 2023 she went to delta for inspection a place called gorodo escravos. She stayed for a week. she had sex with a staff there, an itshekiri man, I saw their messages. I don’t know if she was trying to get back at me on what happened on my bachelors party when I cheated with my long time friend, she forgave me then and I have forgiven her for this when she came back to Abuja. Now I said no more secrets, let’s have access to each others phone’s passwords and social media but she’s refusing that it’s her privacy. If she continues to resist I may seek for divorce.