I have been married for 4 years with 2 kids I remember when I newlywed my husband he slapped me once. I didn’t do anything at the time. That night when he went to sleep. I picked a knife and went into the bedroom. I climbed on his chest and woke him up. I told him that if he ever hit me again I would cut his balls off while he slept. To say the least he never came close to hitting me again in our 4 years together. We still argue but he never raise his hands on me again. I may be small but please don’t under estimate me. I’m 29 he’s 36