I’m a girl , I normally watch my parents fight and quarrel . So much arguments and all that and I didn’t realize I took hold of those things and started applying it to my relationships. It’s sad really I quarrel a lot with this man I love so much and I spoilt a lot of things . I thought it was by argument and all that , if we don’t quarrel it was too peaceful for me. But right now I am almost loosing this man and he doesn’t see me as someone who’s worth it anymore I feel pissed and sad I know I did a lot when all he wanted was to be loved. Right now I am unlearning those things and realizing love is kind .