My wife and I have been married for 5 years. It’s been hell. We’ve fought almost more than we’ve loved . She speaks to me in very unkind ways and always mean with her words. She also has a long list of things she says I do. I just wish she’ll be nicer to me. I really do love her. I wish she was more committed to us. She’s always wanting to leave, I don’t seem to want to let go. I really wish she’d adjust. I just want us to be happy. Right now we’re considering a divorce but I’m to weak to let go. I don’t know why.