Childhood trauma is the worst thing that can ever happen to anyone because it lives with you for the rest of your life but most cases might be different. Growing up, my mom will offer compare me with other kids that now has an effect on me ,it has messed with my self esteem to a point that I always or most times compare my life with others and it’s making me depressed to a point that I hate myself so much that I feel like I’m not good enough and I can’t do anything right or I just feel like others are better than me . Should I blame my mom or hate her for making me feel this way? Now I understand why my sister always had issues and cried asking my mom whether she is her biological mom because of how mom compare us with other kids.