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1. This girl’s story of her 38 well respected lawyer boyfriend just reminded me of an incident around late June on a Saturday.
   Towards evening, i had to go out to meet a friend, my friend insisted on walking me back home cause it was dark, i refused cause my house was just around the corner, on my way back being someone that thinks out loud,
   I met this guy, he randomly asked if i was okay i said i was, i just liked thinking out loud, he went on to ask if i could share my thoughts,
   I looked at him like, do i know you??😂
   Likeee my mummy said i shouldn’t talk to strangers but of course, I can’t just be mean to people generally
   Fast forward to the next thirty minutes, he told me his life history, as if i asked, i shared basic facts about myself too the initial conversations wasn’t so bad, we even exchanged numbers and for the first time I didn’t feel like talking to a stranger was so risky 😂 and then from nowhere baba started talking about how our age difference wasn’t so bad, he was 35 and I was 20.
   I didn’t say anything, i just told him i wanted to go home and that it was late, he held my hand, i was already very uncomfortable then, and he kept insisting we talk some more, and he likes my person blah blah blah, where i lost it was when he tried to hold me and I was like bruhhhh! I don’t like people that don’t respect boundaries and then he was like this small girl, you’re schooling me! For telling you to stop touching me? Isn’t it basic manners to respect people’s will, i angrily left, he kept ringing my line, i blocked his number, he has tried reaching out with a private number several times but i still ignore, somehow within me still feels so unsafe though

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