Growing up I used to see my dad beat my mum up , every time there was an argument , he’d beat her up . This has been happening even before I was given birth to . My dad used to hoe around, he had a lot of children aside my siblings . He didn’t take care of any of us ! He’s still very vile , and the same old quick tempered man I know . Now my mum and siblings keeps saying no matter what “he’s our dad “ and I don’t agree with that . I don’t want to say I hate him , but I really despise everything he did to my mum and my siblings and I wish he wasn’t in our lives !