Broke up with my ex months ago, girl made me critical, had to question myself . And I later found out that 2 months after our break up she had sex with another guy , my heart and my head became heavy whiles all those time I was still thinking about her and a way we could fix things up. Till I had to admit everything( that she is gone forever) and I became so cold about myself and things I started doing.
Had to change my ways, decided to work on myself, focus on my studies and I quit smiling. Everything made people confused about me ( they asked why did I change?) , they asked what changed me , that I’ve become so nonchalant, that I don’t smile anymore and I don’t smile anymore to people like I used to.
And since I started focusing on myself (don’t party , stop drinking, started focusing on my studies as a software engineer and a Forex trader, I had to grow my beard( btw I’m just 19) , and showed less emotions to things and people around , and cut some few friends who ain’t real) I’ve attracted girls way older than me , the highest is 27 and the least is 22( and the rest falls in between), they all think I’m at least I’m 22 due to my stature and the way I act or do things. Funny how most of them want to do things for me, take care of me , get me stuff I want but no I’m not that type of guy
Started understanding that I’m the price , also regretted why I ever cried for a girl . Well she changed who I was
And I’m happy for my growth
As a guy after a heartbreak, focus on yourself (take good care of yourself and your hygiene) , trust me girls will chase after you