I genuinely love this woman and ignored body count, sex toys and other sexual red flags because of Fried rice. (Things I wouldn’t want my daughter to imbibe). She is extremely kind, money savvy and a great chef. But dating a lawyer, everyday feels like a court battle. She is older than me and asuu didn’t touch her, so she has more degrees and is more accomplished. I am also steadily climbing but I don’t even get my ego stroked and asking for reciprocation of love language got me accused of being narcissistic. I love this woman but I know I cannot tolerate this continuous disrespect.