I’m single and lonely.
Relationship has been fair to me but red flags is my problem. I do welcome it thinking I can change them but it’s a No. This happened in my last 2 relationships though. I’m someone that do relax well before jumping into another relationship. I’ve been single since last year and I’ve been happy but kind of lonely too,that’s normal.
I will cut my story short sha ,
I was just on my own oh when a guy texted me on one of my social media account, I really don’t know why I replied with my energy and vibe with him . the first week we met was full of vibe but something happened Which hurt me and I overrreacted which is not right, i actually want to cut him off but couldn’t do it and I realized I’m in love with him.
The following week sha , the vibe wasn’t there anymore.
He reply to my Message just once in a day and if I reply, the next thing is greetings the next day.
I was annoyed but I was like maybe it was because I overreacted . so I apologized and he said he forgive me . I was confused like why am I doing this? Love can do this to me? I’m always an hard girl . this guy broke my ego and e dey pain me😪
So we started vibing back sha, and i confessed my feelings for him😭then I decided to visit him so we can talk out , because with all the way he approached me and all what he said , actually made me thing this should be real. because how can I get feelings for someone just like that. it’s not as if I fell for his words though but the vibe Made me fell in love like this is the kind of guy I want.
I went there sha, we did not have any sex though, but romance. We talked a little bit thinking we’ve started dating . the following day sha , i was home already but couldn’t feel any relationship vibe between us. I actually sat myself and had a deep thought about it,I can’t really be happy with him, I’m sure he can’t be doing transfer because person wey be say #3k wey lost dey pain him 😂😭, and he do talk as If he do send money to people, that same day that I visited him, he lied .. omoo, i can’t do this. Thank God I took my time😎
I felt so stupid but as an hard girl . I started giving him attitude so I can let him go.
Omooo, i was heartbroken even without dating him yet🤦‍♀️
I don’t want to give full story but I’m writing the main points and summary.
To all men out there, if you know you’re not ready for a relationship with someone, stop approaching them to give them hope.. Be clear in your talking stage , the truth can’t help. stop forming. we don’t need your lies.